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说“谢谢"有助于增进人际关系

发布者: katy | 发布时间: 2010-9-9 07:34| 查看数: 2556| 评论数: 7|

Simply saying "thank you" may benefit both the recipient and the person who express gratitude.

简单的一声“谢谢”对致谢人和被感谢的人都有好处。

The studies, published in the latest issue of Psychological Science, found that saying "thank you" strengthens relationships by causing the person expressing thanks to feel more responsible for the recipient's welfare.

最新一期《心理科学》上发表的研究发现,说“谢谢”能让表达感谢的人觉得自己考虑到了对方的感受,进而能够增进人际关系。

“The person doing the thanking comes to perceive the relationship as more communal, to see the person as more worthwhile to make a sacrifice for, to go the extra mile to help out”

“表达感谢的人会更一步看待两人间的关系,认为值得为对方做出牺牲,值得对其鼎力相助。”

“those who are being thanked will often feel an urge to reciprocate. They will want to express their gratitude back. It can become kind of an upward spiral."

“那些受到感谢的人通常会产生回报的想法。他们也会想向对方表达感激,从而形成一种良性循环。”

Do you agree or disagree with that above, Dear friend? Please present your specific opinion to support your answer.Thanks!

朋友们,你是否同意或者不同意上述说的内容吗?请出示您的具体意见,以支持你的答案,谢谢!

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dickarray 发表于 2010-9-9 07:44:18
Well, in general, it does make a big difference because it will make the giver feel much appreciated.However, it also will depend on how you say "thank you" since saying it in a certain way will be seen or misunderstood as being condescending.

So say your "thank you" carefully and with your heart.Say it like you mean it!

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sergey 发表于 2010-9-9 07:52:12


sorry,topic master,would you like to help me with my English?thank you.
smile* 发表于 2010-9-9 09:20:05
Thank you .
devil/v 发表于 2010-9-9 10:35:54
thank you ,but i don't agreen with it . now,some people deeming say “thank you” is only a form,it means politeness 。

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fengherili 发表于 2010-9-9 20:23:09
I agree. At least It shows our politeness and appreciate. For the better communacation, we shoud requre ourseleves to have athankful heart first .

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rshd 发表于 2010-9-9 22:00:14
yes.I agree with it too.when we say "thank you"to others ,they will feel what they do is worthto do .but i think it is not necessary to say thank you to our good friends.

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vofeima 发表于 2010-9-13 16:52:25
When you occur to misfortune that the some people stretch out the aid regarding you.the recipient and the person who express gratitude.it distinguish aspect.

One. Regarding has raised our parents, they do not need us to repay anything, not only said that the sound thanks!

Two.Regarding has raised our fellow.we will want to express their gratitude back. It can become kind of an upward spiral.
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