Ihavenolessons thisafternoon,andbecausethingsshouldbedonewerefinished,so icamehereagainandwantedtowritesomething.Atthemomentididn'tknowwhattowrite,aroommatesmentionedthedeathofthegraduatestudent.Soibegantowrite thistopic.
Itwasabouttenyearsago,angraduatestudentinmyuniversitychosetoendhislifebyjumpingoffthefifthfloorofanapartmentbuliding .Wedon'tknowwhatmadehimmakesuchachoice,butitis saidtha thewas anhonest boy and hewenteverywherealone.
It is notthefirstcaseofcollegesuicideinmyuniversity,inmyopinion,otheruniversitiesmusthappenedsucha similiarcase.Thwdeathshavehighlightedtheseriousnessofdepressionand mentalfragilityamongstudents.Greatconcernhasbeenarousedtorethinkourexam-centerededucation.However,wheniheardofthesuicide,thefirstthingthatjumpedintomy mindwasconcernfortheirbeloved,theirparents,lovers andfriends."Howcouldtheypossiblysurvivetheintensegriefifiweredead?"Havetheyeverthoughtaboutthisquestionbeforetheychosetodie?Ifso,whydidtheytakeownlifeanyhow?Inmyview,theyhavenoright todie.Instead,alawshould bepromulgatedthatones'sblovedwouldbepunishedifonedoesn'tcherishoneself.
Asthesayinggoes,"theheaviestdebtweowetoothersislove,andlove-debtisalsothehardestrepay",becauseloveissosupremeanemotionthatcannitherbepricednormeasured.Wearenotonlyborntoliveforourselves,butalsolivingforothers.Whenwehaveoccupiedacornerinanother'sheart,anintricatenetis formedbetweenouremotionandtheother's.Therefore,whileoneistroubled ,theotheris inevitablyharmed.Wecan'tavoidsome accidentsordestinies,but at leastweshouldtryourbesttocherishourlives withinourpower.
Sometimesourlovedonesaffectionissogreatansselflessthatwetakeitforgrantuated.Itisoneofhumanfratiltiesnottovaluethethingsthatwehavealreadyowned.
Ontheotherhand,someonemaysaythatpeoplechoosetocommitsuicidebecauseoffailuretoliveupothers'expectations.Butdeathcanbringnomoresolutationsthangrief.Weshouldlearntobegratefulratherthancomplaining.Togiveyourselfanotheranotherchanceistogiveyourbelovedonemorereasontolive.
Idohopeeveryone cancheriushhisorherownlife. |
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