There is no revenge so complete as forgiveness.

Britain's queen Elizabeth II received her education in the palace since childhood.She has a

natural aptitude for history, language and music and can speak Frech, Spanish and German

fluently. She said the secret of success on getting along with her husband for 60 years is

tolerance.

宽恕是最好的复仇方式。

英国女王伊丽莎白二世，自幼在皇宫内接受教育，主修宪法史和法律。她在历史、语言和音乐方面有造诣

，能流利地讲法语、西班牙语和德语。她说与丈夫幸福相处60多年的秘诀就是，宽容。

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回复 1# katy006688

Forgiveness is a virtue of humility. Her answer is expressed all that is redemptive about life and love cuz when you forgive, you open the channels for trust and unconditional love. An intelligent woman knows how to make loves stay in love and how to maintain long-term love.Queen Elizabeth II glommed on it and she made it.

opposite to the former topic "quarrels make beauty " , katy come up this topic"forgiveness is a virtue" . addmittedly, forgiveness generate harmonious atmosphere.no one feels like contacting with cheapstake.however, over-forgive means compromise. there is event that i have to mention, which is NanJing masscacre. how can we chinese, especailly the north-east folks forgive "Little Japan"!!!

take connubiality for example,tolerance can resolve most conflicts.

in fact, it is usually very hard to say who is right and who is mistaken between a husband and wife when spats arise. where this is the case, mutual understanding and forgiveness make it possible for the husband and wife to stay cool and forget about all unhappiness.

in regard to international affairs, tolerance also plays an important part in handling bilateral ties between nations.

last month china and japan, the two powers of asia, were mired in the dispute over diaoyu islands which are rich in fishery and potential natural gas reserve. china suspended high level meetings with japan and canceled an invitition to 1000 japanese to the shanghai expo because of the detention of a chinese captain after his boat crashed into two japanese ships near diaoyu islands.

activists in both countries demonstrated against eachother though, leaders of both countries stayed calm and did not take further countermeasures to prevent from escalating the issue.

some activists might not satisefied with that result. however,in the long run, declearing war against eachotherat present will benefit neither japan nor china. scince it is an intractable historical problem, why not let our descendants handle it at a proper time in the future?

so appropriate tolerance is definitely a virtue in terms of both interpersonal andinternatonal relations.