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i think the answer is the environment . of course the environment contents a lot of things eg:parents teachers classmates or others~ |
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yes,personality is settled by environment,but most of the environment is due to parents or ourselves.when we are children,the environment is made by parents,I think parents' education is very important,we can say the personality of that time is entirely settled by parents,why are so many people growed not obedient to their parents?it is more relationship to this,and many details of personality is difficult to express,it is a kind of "潜移默化".of course,after we growed,many things are decided by ourselves,we are able to differentiate right or fault,we are able to make environment of ourselves,naturally,the form of personality is settled by ourselves this period. As a whole,I think parents' responsibility is more than our own,that is why some people ussually say "龙生龙，凤生凤，老鼠生了打地洞".  |
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Hi Nine, I have done my best to better your topic at a different level. Please check it out: [em07] <STRONG>One day, a colleague of mine and I were discussing the issue of one's personality. She blames her parents for her not so well personality. She argued that it was her parents’ responsiblility to shape her personaility. I am suggesting this issue for our discussion: Who is main influence to shape one’s personality? Your Parents or youself?</STRONG> |
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Somebody is born with fixed personalities given by their parents, but some others might change their personalities later in their life all by themselves. It just depends on the changing environment and life experiences. |
| What I think about it is half and half.The half from your family,the other half from the environment you are in.People always say that like father,like son,this is correct,but not complete.You also have your own personality that your parents don't have.Therefore, you are yourself,not anyone else. |
| it's a fact thatthe environment act as a very important role,but the determinant is myself |
