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Dear Cactus, I'm so sorry to hear your sad story. If this was really what happened earlier today, then I'd like to give you some suggestions. I'm afraid that you were not concentrating on the things that you were doing, as much of your attention was on yourself. Whatever you're doing for the moment, it can never be a wise choice to consider much about yourself. We, as human beings, are weakest in judging on the issues of ourselves. So you see, people always talk about selflessness. The more you manage to forget the existence of yourself, the more you'll be able to concentrate on the affair at hand, and the better your performance may be.We, human beings, are much stronger tackling issues irrelated to ourselves. So from my perspective, your problem is basically a mental issue. Please never forget to calm down before you start out your business. Good luck next time! soso |
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Dear Cactus Your experience reminds me off my performance in an English M.C (Master of Ceremonies) competition. It was the first important competition that I had participated since I entered university. I was extremely nervous at that moment. And before this final, I couldn't eat and sleep well for the whole week. I didn't know why I was so nervous,but I had never taken part in such a compertition before.And being a freshman, I was not confident enough. When it was my turn, I stepped to the stage with a heart beating hard. If I could get out of the hall, I absolutely would do that.Suddently, I couldn't think of anything. What!!! I was so nervous and worried, but I had to smile to the ordience, it must be a bitter smile. Then when I was standing on the stage and facing my dear classmates, they smiled and waved their hands to me, I was touched and my mind became clear again and starded my selfintrodution. In the end, I took the second place. I laughed and smiled,there was no need to be so nervous. Whether I got the prize or not is not important at all, but the experience is unvaluable. |
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It is hard to say a true story. At least, something imaginary are supposed to be added in the essay since the composer is such a writer adept in detailed description of sentiment, which we have experienced several days before. Yet I'd say that the first impression counts, especially on girls. Confidence, personality and things like that are being esteemed to be the most charming abilities of girls. Without gainsay, girls' 'beauty', as another point, to some extent could impress others accordingly. If I were the boss or customer, when I saw a young girl in military overcoat coming in my office, I could not help but think that the opposite company she is servering for despised me and in turn I would look down upon them. Of course,there are many factors resulting in the result, of which your performance is likely to be inessential. <br> |
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<FONT face=Arial size=2>Dear Sister,</FONT> <FONT face=Arial size=2>First for the sake of releasing your bad mood,I just want to say:It's O.K,sister,everytthing woulld be fine,don't take it too seriously. It's just an interview,nothing special.</FONT> <FONT face=Arial size=2>As for the interview,the first impression in others mind is very substatial. Especially when it comes a girl,much attention will be payed to her appearance rather than her ability in our modern society. As you told me. You were in the green overcoat with the elagant orchid exceptionally prepared for the interview and the costume was just for the formal occasion. So I think there's no problem with you about your first impression engraved the boss. But pitifully when you got everything prepared the moment the boss was not avaiable. The problem is that all of your enthusiasm and confidience has been in vain just cause of the delay of the meeting. It's not your fault,just some misunderstanding between you and the boss. For killing time,you were concentrating on your reading with the magazine you brought with. Nothing can be much worse than such thing. The energy has been put on a not proper thing in not proper time. And when the real meeting comes,you just can't get your mental back and you are out of mind. I can't agree with Soso any more,as he said,man is weakest when he's concentrating on somethings,relative or irrelative. Maybe the best opptunity to visit the boss has gone with the delay of meeting. One's energy is limitted,when origianal passion has gone,it will be much difficult for a people to gathter any further power to face the other things. And that's perhaps the reason why you didn't act well for the interview.</FONT> <FONT face=Arial size=2>So sister,persoanlly I just want to give you some my humble suggestions. Next time no matter how long it will take you to wait for the boss,just have a break,in light of the further interview,to assemble the strenth and power. And when the boss comes,don't paly any impatient and bored when you face up to him though you do believe waiting for somebody is really tiresome and exhausted. An amiable smile would be better to leave a good impression in his mind,it will make you looks more mysterious and mellow. Moreover,to step in him and stretch you hand to shake hands with him on your initiative. All that you can do is make the atmosphere of the interview become more smooth and comfortable. Then I think the boss will reconsider his negative assess he put on you before. </FONT> <FONT face=Arial size=2>Cheers,sister,trust yourself,you are the best,believe who you are!</FONT> <FONT face=Arial size=2>Sincerely yours</FONT> <FONT face=Arial size=2>  uppy</FONT> |
