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久违的笔杆，偶又提起！好久，好久，好久没有写点什么了，自从离汉来厦，转眼已过了半年，每次一个人做着发呆时都会想起大武汉，想起大武汉的同事，大武汉的朋友，大武汉的同学，大武汉的点滴……我不得不承认，我，是一个感性的人，在大武汉，我想远在海边的爸妈，吹着海风，我又会想起大武汉。是的，在我心中，或许武汉是第二个家，那里有太多的人，太多的事，太多的回忆，以至于我走在家乡的海滩还会时常想起长江，偶感孤单……因为这里除了家人，便只有我及为了我而选择远嫁的妻子……

My pen, I again filed! Long, long, long time no write something, since from the Han to the mansion, now over half a year, each time a person doing staring will think big Wuhan, think big big Wuhan Wuhan colleagues, friends, classmates in Wuhan Wuhan, big little ... ... I have to admit, I, is a sentimental person, in Wuhan, I want to be the parents, blowing sea breeze, I will think of big wuhan. Yes, in my mind, maybe Wuhan is the second house, where there are too many people, too many things, too many memories, so I went in his hometown will often think of the beach, I was lonely ... ... Because here in addition to his family, he only me and for me and the choice of married wife ... ...

妻子远嫁，是为了一个男人，来到离家上千公里或者几千公里的地方生活，然后以一个女人的姿态扮演一个妻子，以一个家庭煮妇的姿态扮演儿媳，或许一年后同时又要扮演母亲。或许，妻子是可怜的，又或说妻子是伟大的，以至以我心疼的今天提起这根笔杆的为她写传。在这里，妻子要开始新的交友圈子，在这个基础上，同时又要了解融入丈夫的圈子。

Wife, married, to a man, come away from thousands of kilometers or thousands of kilometers place for life, then to a woman's attitude as a wife, to a family housewife attitude plays a daughter-in-law, maybe a year later and played the mother. Perhaps, his wife is poor, or that his wife is great, even to me today about the pen write her biography. Here, his wife will start a new circle of friends, on this basis, at the same time, insights into the husband's circle.

在离开大武汉的那天，眼眸迷离，环顾身边没有亲人，只有一个亲如父五点钟就起来为我们送行的杨经理，及妻子仅有一两个比较好的姐妹，或许，妻子告诉自己也告诉他们，我会想你们，会常联系。而离别的眼泪并不能诠释什么，你也无力应证什么，相隔千里，妻子知道最终会失去你却无力抓牢。十几年甚至二十年的朋友只能一一惜别，相见无期，一南一北，无数场友谊随着妻子的远嫁如云流水，无法停驻。最终只是一道以往的风景。

After leaving the big Wuhan day, eyes blurred, look side has no family, only a kiss as the father gets up at five o'clock to see us off poplar the manager, and his wife, only one or two relatively good sisters, perhaps, his wife told himself told them, I will miss you, will often contact. While parting tears can not interpret anything, you cannot be anything, thousands of miles away, the wife knows will eventually lose you are unable to hold on. More than 10 years or even twenty years only one one parting friends, meet an indefinite period, the South and the north, numerous friendly with wife into clouds and flowing water, can't stop. The final was a previous scenery.



到了厦，身边没有朋友的妻子，生活的一切重心只于一个人，他的丈夫。如果刚好这时候事业不顺，妻子就会很在意她的丈夫，围绕着他，生活的一切一切……最终妻子只能陷入被动的境地。或许寂寞或许思念或许冷清……妻子曾经和丈夫说过，要一年回去一次看父母亲人，无论多忙，回去的时间要在半个月到一个月之间。或许之前两三年还可以执行，又或许后来身边多了一个孩子，母性发作，不忍孩子劳累，丈夫也抽不出时间来，可能这时妻子会完全不记得当时信誓旦旦立下的规定。妻母亲的不忍流泪和妻父亲的故作坚强都在妻子步入婚姻殿堂的那一刻崩溃。十月怀胎，牙牙学语，教育，工作，恋爱，一切的一切安排和用心良苦都敌不过妻子现在选择的决绝。一个人带着二十几年的亲情、友情、乡情去到另一个地方，然后从新开始，创造一个新的回忆，之前的，都成了过往。似乎妻子从来没有来过，又或者说妻子悄悄地来了又悄悄的走了，带走的是两位老人心上的那根线，长长远远的，放到了妻子在的地方然后来来回回的扯动。

At the mansion, not around the friend's wife, life focus only on a person, his husband. If just this career is not suitable, the wife will be very concerned about her husband, around him, all the life of all ... ... Eventually my wife can only fall into a passive position. Lonely lonely miss maybe perhaps ... ... Wife and husband once said, in a year back again to see his parents, no matter how busy he is, go back in time to be in the second half of a month. Perhaps before two or three years can also perform, and perhaps later side more than a child, maternal seizures, bear child tired, her husband has no time to spare, may then the wife will do remember that take an oath devoutly set rules. His mother and wife to cry father pretending to be strong in his wife into the marriage hall at that moment collapse. October be pregnant, babble out one's first speech sounds, education, work, love, everything is arranged and have cudgeled one's brains the enemy but wife now choose to refuse. A person with more than 20 years of kinship, friendship, affection to go to another place, and then start, create a new memories, before, have become the past. Seems to be his wife and had never been to, or wife to come quietly and quietly walked away, is two elderly heart on the line, the long distance, put the wife in place and then pulled to and fro.

人生不如意事不说八九，常有。当闹矛盾的时候妻子独自坐在深夜无人的角落，一个劲的狂哭，这时妻或许也曾记起以前的点滴，几个好友吧嗒这拖鞋穿着短裤在街边的小摊喝糖水吃烧烤，兄弟姐妹聚在一起打牌通宵。看着漆黑夜里未曾出现丈夫的身影，妻子泪流满面，掏出手机，没有一个可以拨打的电话。或许妻子很想给母亲一个电话，可是又或许妻又害怕听到母亲电话那头因思念而哽咽的难过。老婆，谢谢你了，老婆委屈你了，这些年，妻收获的太少，失去的太多。

Most things in life do not say eight or nine, often have. When the conflict when his wife was sitting alone in the middle of the Night Nobody's corner, a strength of cry, the wife may also remember before the drip, a few friends to go this slipper wearing shorts in street stalls the sugar water to drink to eat barbecue, brothers and sisters together play cards all night. Look at the dark have husband figure, wife burst into tears, took out a mobile phone, no one can call a phone. Perhaps his wife wanted to give mother a call, but perhaps his wife was afraid to hear mother telephone miss and choking. Wife wife, thank you, thank you, these years, wife harvest too little, too much to lose.



娶了远方女孩的男孩子们，请更珍惜身边的妻子。她，为了一个你放弃了过往的一切，既然我们选择了买断了她的后半生，就要深深地对她负责。

Married a distant girls boys, please cherish 's wife. She, for the one you give up everything, since we have chosen to buy out the rest of her life, will be deeply responsible for her.