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一个专治孩子写作业磨蹭的绝招，百试不爽！

发布者: david | 发布时间: 2014-10-27 09:22| 查看数: 2011| 评论数: 0|

<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1.孩子正在写作业时，您在干什么？<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">×错误做法：一边看电视一边监督孩子，嘴里不停叨叨：“写快点。”“别磨蹭。”“不准看电视，好好学习。”<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子不高兴：“凭啥你就能看电视，我就不能看，真不公平。”<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">㊣正确做法：大人也看书，不打扰孩子，营造浓厚的家庭学习气氛。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子心态平和，心思都在学习上。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2.孩子写作业磨蹭、拖拉、不专心，该睡觉了，作业却没写完。您会怎么做？<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">×错误做法：训斥孩子：“你气死我了，怎么又没写完，我一会儿不看着都不行，快点写！我看着你。”<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子并不着急，依然慢慢悠悠看<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">㊣正确做法：严肃地、平静地对孩子说：“孩子，写作业是你自己的事，你要对自己的事负责，没写完不准写了，该睡觉了，明天自己去学校跟老师解释吧。”（适当地让孩子承担自己的行为带来的一些后果。）<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子意识到自己的错误，很后悔，心里想：“这下完了，怎么跟老师说呀，看来明天写作业得快点了，不然还得挨批。”<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3.孩子一直看电视，不睡觉也不写作业，您怎么做？<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">×错误做法：怒气冲天地把电视关掉，吼叫着叫孩子去写作业或睡觉。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子满肚子不高兴地去了，心里恨你，说你是暴君。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">㊣正确做法：平静对孩子说：“孩子，你该写作业了，如果写不完会挨批。你还想看多久？”孩子：“我再看10分钟行吗？”家长：“行，说话算数，到时间就关电视。”双方各退一步。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：时间到了，孩子主动关电视，去睡觉或写作业。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">4.孩子作业写得潦草，您怎么做？<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">×错误做法：发火：“怎么写得这么乱，你就不能写好点？”甚至气的把孩子的作业撕了。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子茫然，不知所措。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">㊣正确做法：严肃地、平静地对孩子说:“孩子，我已经说过了，写不工整要重写，因为不工整，老师看不清楚，你看，这是“规定”，不能破坏，所以你必须重写了。你看，你应该这样写字（讲述写字规范，横平竖直，大小一致。）。孩子，你只要写得比你刚才的字有进步就行（和自己比），有信心吗？”<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子懂得“规定”的重要性，心里想：“比刚才的字有进步，容易。”孩子会对自己充满信心。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">5.孩子考试不及格，您看到成绩单后怎么做？<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">×错误做法：训斥孩子：“你看你，考这么点分，你也不嫌丢人？你看人家谁谁，人家怎么就能考一百？你笨死了！气死我了。”更有甚者使劲踢孩子几脚。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子心情坏到了极点，心里想：“我完了，我这么笨，学不好了，再怎么学也学不好。”<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">㊣正确做法：安慰孩子：“孩子，我知道你心里也不好受，一次没考好不代表什么，关键是我们要找出没考好的原因，然后解决它，好不好，我和你一起分析一下。我相信你，下次一定会有进步。”<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子认真地找原因去了，心里想：“我要努力，不辜负爸爸妈妈的期望，我一定行。”<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">6.家长会上，老师批评了您孩子，回到家中您会怎么做？<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">×错误做法：一回家就把气撒在孩子身上，对孩子又打又骂。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子没任何自信，要么学会暴力，要么胆小，一句话不敢说，学会撒谎，不敢和父母说真话。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">㊣正确做法：先把孩子的优点讲讲，然后分析不足的原因，鼓励孩子，相信孩子下次一定会有进步。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子会给你惊喜的哦！<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">7.孩子见人不打招呼、没礼貌，这时您该怎么做？<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">×错误做法：当众训斥孩子：“你这孩子怎么这么没礼貌？连问好都不会，我平时是咋教你的，没出息。”<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子的自尊心受到很大损伤，觉得无地自容，自卑感油然而生。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">㊣正确做法：给孩子台阶下：“我孩子有点不好意思，慢慢就好了，他平时也挺有礼貌的。”举个有礼貌的例子”<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子知道错了，心想：“这次没做好，下次一定做好，不能让父母失望啊。”<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">8.孩子问了个问题，您不会，这时您会怎么做？<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">×错误做法：不高兴：“别瞎问了，把学习搞好就行了，每天不知道想点啥。”<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子心里想：“哎，没劲，总说学习学习，烦死了，不问就不问。”从此，遇到难题一概略过，不求甚解。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">㊣正确做法：高兴地对孩子说：“孩子，你能问这么难的问题，证明你动脑筋了，不错。可是我也不会，咱们一起研究研究吧，好吗？”<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：孩子心里很高兴，以后遇到问题一定锲而不舍，非研究明白不可。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">9.孩子早上不起床，怎么叫都不起床，这时你会怎么做？<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">×错误做法：发火：“你怎么还不起？要迟到了！”顺手打两巴掌，手忙脚乱地给孩子找衣服穿衣服。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：下次依旧。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">㊣正确做法：平静地说：“孩子，我就叫你一次，如果你不起，就会迟到，会挨批，这是你自己的事，你自己处理好。”孩子没及时起床，没吃早饭，还迟到了。<p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> <p style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: normal; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', 微软雅黑, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">结果：下次一叫就起床！

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