You have to try this chocolate croissant!They are usually sold out at around 4 pm, and I saved the last one just for you. By the way, I got to leave a few hours early today to pick up my uncle at the airport. Please cover for me. Make sure you lock up, and don’t say anything to the boss.
Thank you for the croissant. Let me at least give you the money for it. I will get it for you next time. But I have to leave on time today because I have dinner plans. The boss will be back soon, and she will probably notice that you disappear in the middle of the afternoon.
I know you told me that you have plans over the weekend… If you cannot help me move, would you be willing to send the package at the post office for me?
我知道你周末已经有事了…… 那如果你不能帮我搬家,你是否愿意到邮局帮我寄个包裹?
Askee:
As I told you, I have to get ready for my seminar that starts at 8 am tomorrow. The post office is going to be extremely crowded this afternoon, and it won’t be possible for me to get in line for hours to fulfill your personal errand.
Most people who care about the environment make monthly donations of NT$200 or more, but you can decide how much you want to donate.
大多数关心环境的人每个月至少捐款台币200元,但你还是可以自己决定你要捐多少。
Askee:
Thank you for the wonderful opportunity that allows me to contribute. But there are so many organizations fighting to protect the environment. I prefer to do more in-depth research online first, and then decide where my donations should go.
4. Establishing similarity between asker and askee:建立提问者与被问者之间的相似性
人性驱使我们期望找到对方与自己的共同点。如果有求于你的人与你有类似的外表、背景、特质或想法,也许你的同理心就会让你想帮助一位与你类似的地球公民。可是相对来讲,建立相似性也是简单的小心机!当一个人赞同你、或者大声的指出他与你类似的地方,最好先分析一下他的出发点,先问自己:”Why would this person say this?” ,然后下一步也会很容易的了解 this person wants something from me!
Asker:
Oh mine, I love your new dress! I have one just like it. I also like your idea regarding redesigning the flowchart of the annual conference’s seating arrangement. It will save every one so much time. I always had similar thoughts. Guess great minds do think alike!Oh, just one more thing, I have to meet a client for lunch, so I need your help with the slides. Please make sure you check the figures, proofread the writing, and reorganize the format!
I’d love to help. But I promised the boss that I will complete the conference’s ad today. You and your team are all great researchers. I believe if you put your heads together, you will create the best presentation slides ever!
1. So sorry boss! I clocked out five minutes ago, and my cab is waiting. I got to go meet my friend. Tonight is the last night that she is visiting, and I am already late. I’ll have the presentation slides ready tomorrow morning. Is that okay?
2. I sincerely appreciate you let me take time off when I had a family emergency. But I cannot take on new clients until next month, because I want to ensure the quality of my services to my current clients.
3. I would love to join you for a drink, and unwind myself. But I have to attend a seminar most nights this week, then run home after that, so the babysitter can go home herself. I regret that I am unable to join you, but I hope you will have a wonderful time.
4. Thank you so much for offering me a position at the new branch. I know most employees would kill for the opportunity. But I just moved to a place that’s close to my parents, and the new branch is far from where I live now. It will be extremely difficult for me to get to work on time.