Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child. The winner was a four-year-old child whose next-door was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap and just sat there. When his mother asked him what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, “Nothing, I just helped him cry.”

笔者和讲师巴斯卡利在谈论他被邀参与评审的一个竞赛。竞赛的目的是为了找到最关心人的孩子。获胜的是一个四岁的孩子，住他隔壁的老人刚失去妻子。在楼上男孩看见老人在哭，小男孩就跑进老人的庭院，爬上老人的膝盖后坐着。当他的母亲问起小男孩对邻居做了什么的时候，他回到道：“没什么，我只是陪他一起哭。”