俗话说,人谁无过?也有人说,错误本身并不可怕,可怕的是要承认错误,承认了错误就等于承认自己是个失败者。
Colloquially, anyone has made mistakes, someone also says, mistake itself isn’t horrible, it’s fearful to admit the mistake, admitting it means you think you are a failure.
或许你把公司的大客户弄丢了。或许你在处理那个大项目过程中忽略了一个关键环节。或许大家等着你去接人,你却忘了。实上你却是答应了要去的。无论如何,有人对你委以信任,而你却有负所望。
Maybe you lose the big customer of your company, or you neglect a key point when you dealing with that big project, even everyone waits for you to pick up someone, you are forgetting, actually you promised to do. Anyway, there is someone appoint you, but you eat your words.
现在你必须要坦白面对他们。面对这些情形,本能的反应是“先逃避后掩盖”,想尽办法为自己开脱。鉴于事态严重的程度,你可能会丢掉饭碗,职场前途,也会失去友谊,地位,乃至个人声誉。种种的一切都成为你向上司,朋友,家人承认错误的绊脚石。那么你还敢鼓起勇气承认错误吗?
Now you must face them frankly, facing these situations, your instinctive action is “escaping then covering up”, trying to exculpate yourself from the trouble. Considering the serious degree of the situation, you may lose your job, or losing friendship and position, even your reputation. All these will be the obstacle of admitting the mistakes to your boss, friends and family. Or will you dare to admit the mistakes? |
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