Should parents reveal the “truth” to the children?
这两天，“好死不如赖活”两篇文章在菠菜园引起非常热烈的讨论，从一个侧面反映出目前民众对社会的一种期盼。就事论事，父母在心智逐渐成熟的孩儿们的面前，该讲些什么，不该讲什么，该不该说“实话”，确实是一个让人深思的话题。
These days, “To die decently is better than to live miserably” has aroused heated discussion in the “Spinach Garden”, which reflected the desire of the common people at present. Consider it as it stands. What should the parents talk or avoid mentioning in front of the children who are being mentally mature? It is definitely worth considering whether the truth should be told.
作为父亲，该把孩子从童话梦里面唤醒，还是让他们能象过周日一样睡到“自然醒”？任何做父母的都不愿意看到自己的子女今后在生活中真的碰得“头破血流”，但是，父母该怎样告诉他们真实的世界呢？父母该对孩子说“实话”吗？作为孩子，你是否还沉浸在童话梦里？该提早认识这个有趣，而且又残酷无比的真实世界吗？
Should the father wake the children from the dream of the fairy tale, or let them wake subconsciously like the Sundays as usual? No parents would like to see their children knock and bleed in real life in the future? However, how should the parents reveal the actual world? Should they reveal the truth? As a child, are you still buried yourself in the fairy tale? Should you understand this interesting, but ruthless real world at an earlier time? |
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