What do you think of “the third wheel” in romance?



有人说，男人有钱了就变坏。也许有点道理，很多家财万贯的男人，都会背着自己的老婆，到外面找“小三”（俗称：第三者）。有人认为第三者是罪无可恕的，但也有人认为第三者是无辜的……

Some say men become corrupted once they get wealthy. It makes sense somewhat. Many well-to-do men will have an affair with another woman against their wives. Some think “the third wheels” are flagrant, while some believe they are innocent.

观点一：第三者令人发指，破坏别人家庭，图的是什么？不就是钱么？难道她会喜欢比自己大20岁的老男人？第三者少一个出现，这恩爱的家庭就不会毁灭！

View A: the third wheel is reprehensible since they have destroyed others’ family. What do they intend for? Isn’t it money that they desire for? Do they really fall in love with a man who is 20 years older? The harmonious family will not be destroyed when there is no “third wheel”!

观点二：有第三者插足，说明夫妻双方明显有问题。说不定真的是情缘已尽，只能各奔东西，如果没小孩的，还是果断一点，该离就离……

View B: the involvement of the third wheel proves there is something wrong with the couple. It may indicate the end of romance and the two have to separate. It is better to be resolute to get divorced if they have no kids…

观点三：第三者的伤痛一定比任何一个人都要伤。当男人的妻子发现丈夫外遇，男人就会回到妻子身边去，而第三者就要受着两种痛苦，一个是给你妻子骂，另一个就是一直说爱我的男人突然改面说是我勾引他，最后把所有罪都归在第三者身上。

View C: the third wheel is more seriously hurt than anyone else. When the wife finds her husband having an affair, the husband has to return to his wife. The third wheel has to suffer two kinds of sorrow: the wife may condemn her; the man who was always declaring that he loves her may change abruptly by saying that she has seduced him and then ascribe everything to her.

对于爱情中的“小三”，你怎么看？你会采取什么方法杜绝爱情中的第三者呢?

What do you think of “the third wheel” in romance? What will you do to avoid “the third wheel”?

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Itisabadphenomenonandmanshouldloveawomanbyhistrueloveheart

Not onlymanandwoman,heorsheareallshouldavoid it .

Dont do the third wheels for yourself as possible as you can,protect you away from the harm.we are the girls , we have feelings ,maybe sometimes we dont know the feeling come-outothers families...

It depends on what's the attitude you put intoif you played a role as"the 3rd wheel",and how much you afford within your love.Love is pretty perfect in our lives.The real pure love is gracious and innocent even though you're not into a right role in love.But in other hand,don't try to break up the others' happy life to achieve some selfish purposes.that's enough.

Anyway,don't lose your heart if the man can't promise you anything.the real responsible man won't touch you without any promise.

I have heared one word--------" I can resist anything but temptation---Oscar Fingal O'Flahe"

So, the "extramarital affairs"seems to be one oftemptation for the married.

In my view, as a maturer, we should pay attention to the sense of respnosibility.

回复 2# goodboylilibo

{:soso_e141:} yes? it is man's nature to love the young and beauty woman, there is nothing can stand up with the test of time, love is aslo cna't escape{:soso_e151:}

回复 5# C.Bei

{:soso_e141:}

yes? lots of woman give their virginity the men voluntarily? even a man of integrity can't bear a pretty woman 's lure, not to mention the other vicious guy{:soso_e151:} , so this is woman's fault

{:soso_e141:}as I see, we can't conclude who is right or wrong in such thing, if a family was undermined by another woman, it is just proved that there has had something problems in this family, of course some girls are eager to attract some successful man by their young and pretty in order to lead a comfortable life, maybe this phenomenon is induced by deeper social problems, moral decline, young guys want to get everything without any effort,

我 think小三啊她们从一方面看是悲剧的但是他们对love的追求甚至是 withtheirheart所以说也是幸福的但是现实的他们确实悲剧的