They say that love will experience three steps. First, the two lovers will fall in love with each other as he or she considers the other one is “The One”. But gradually, when they come to understand each other deeply, they will have been quarrelling day after day. After that, congratulations, it’s rather possible for U two to lead a happy and compatible life, together.

It’s what my friend told me. But what if we two don’t talk with each other at all? We are not angry with the other one, I promise, just have nothing to chat. So we have been keeping silence on the street, around the table, and everywhere. Do you think we are in the second step?

[ 本帖最后由 magicsunxq 于 2007-8-28 10:59 编辑 ]

hehe,actually in many cases, it is always the boy who is after the girl.

and the girl might not be so interested in the boy.

If two people are together everyday, there may not be so much to talk. Or they don't even have to talk, just the eyesight or the movement will be enough. Don't you think it will be better than quarrelling all day along?

It's common that boys go after girls, but sometimes girls will take the initiative

You are imaging a beartiful story about two who rather understand each other.

In different relationship will have different situation. It's not good doubt your lover just by your mind, you can discuss with him about what you have thought.

3Q for your advice

DO YOU REMEMBER THIS"距离产生美", IF TWO STAY TOGETHER EVERYDAY, THEY WILL INGNORE HIS/HER "BEAUTY" BUT FIND HIS/HER "SHORTAGE" IN MY OPPINION.

It's a good point that distance may bring the beauty. I would have a try

Quite agree with you. If two people stay together everyday, love beomes numb, but problems do jump out much more often.