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a female confidant , a wife, a lover,every man must to think so so .... |
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应该有 |
看看每个人都不一样 |
first, you must correctly define 'female confidant'. the female confidant is a female friend who could help you, comfort you, make you no longer lonely , when you are upset,lost or failing. so a man could have a female confidant. but recently, most people consider the famale confidant is a lover who you can make love with when you are tired of you wife, it is just a sex trader. |
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这个,好像不关我的事{:soso_e118:} |
I don't think so. If the man can have a female confidant, the woman can have amale confidant. |
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本帖最后由 凯旋城 于 2011-2-20 16:38 编辑 both men and women need to relieve their feelings to someone ocassionally, if their spouses fail to meet teir demands, another person, usually someone of the opposite sex will appear in their lifves. traditionallly, women tend to stay at home and look after the family; while men tend to spend more time outside where there are more opportunities to make friends, including those of the opposite gender. as can be deduced from the above paragraphs, generally there are two reasons to explain why some men have femal cofidants: first, their wives can't meet some requirment of them; second, the deterioration of social atmosphere contributes to the occurance of this behavior. to prevent this behavior from happening, on the one hand , both husband and wife should care more about each other to improve the ralationship between them; one the other hand, moral construction should be strengtherned to educate people to behave more properly. |
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本帖最后由 凯旋城 于 2011-2-20 22:04 编辑 what i ve said seems to be off the point.generally speaking, it s not expected to advocate this behavior, which would steer to breakup of a family. |
without harmonious families, there will not be a harmonious society. |
is it a false to have a female confidant besides a wife?,in this world, both elderly and children, man or woman, everyone are required to have many freiends, we need friends to share our joys and sorrows, to a successful man . if have no remale confidant is not acceptable. only have a wife is not enough. face to ancient emperors .is it a false to have a lover besides a wife? |
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It's so lucky for a person who has her/his opposite sex confidant! To be honest, it's might, but I doubt it, because I think it's not an easy job not changing the confidant to be a lover! |
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本帖最后由 R-Tracy 于 2011-2-20 20:17 编辑 I don't know how others define a confidant. As for me, a confidant is someone who really knows us and tries his or her best to support whatever we do mentally. In that case, not only men but also women are dying for a confidant. To be honest, humans hate being loney in the world. In other words, we need companions and desire for someone who has the ability to read our minds and share with us the deepest feelings and thoughts. From my point of view, all of us are looking for a person like that all our life. Some guys are lucky enough to find a confidant, but most of us, searching for all our life, fail to have one. I would say it's a gift to have a confidant. |
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every man do need female confidant.when they confront trouble in life or career, they could pour out their sorrow, meanwhile,when forturn meet them, they could share the happiness as well. girls are born to be more tender,mild than man, so i believe every man should seek for a female confidant. |
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真正意义上的红颜知己往往可遇不可求,现实中的又大多比较暧昧,男人女人如果不能驾驭这样的情感,为了家庭的和谐,最好还是没有的好吧 |
可以有 |
I don't think so. |
我同意这个说法,但是如果你作为男人不能控制好这个度,将会出现情感上的危机,导致你的家庭出现问题,当你决定结婚时,你是对自己对妻子做出了一份承诺,虽然我们生活在一个和人交流相处的社会内,但是我们需要理智的处理情感问题,红颜知己说到底只能是朋友。 I agree with this , but as a man if you can not control the right degree ,it will be have a emotional crisis .When you decided to get married ,you have already made a promise to your wife, although we have live in a society to communicate with others, but we need to make the emotional problems in reason ,the female confidant is just a friend to you . |