Are you independentin your mind ?what's important for the independence?

孔老夫子说：三十而立。自立也是我们迈向成功的一个台阶。 然而，我身边有俩哥们儿，一个独立意识强的让人吐血，另一个却总是像个孩子似的。

你是一个自立的人吗？你认为拥有哪些特质才是自立的表现呢？自立会更容易成功吗？

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我还真不是一个自立的人啊 不过自立对我来说好困难啊 也许是因为环境的问题吧我就是缺少锻炼

回复 14# 親親~寶貝

谢谢你的分享啊！你感觉不自立给你带了了些什么呢？

Thanks for your share!Is there something the independent brings to you ?

I think i am very independent

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{:soso_e100:}i am totally independent, relying on others too much is not good for our own delevopment.and i encourage young adults should have have their opinions when they are confronting with difficulties.

I think I'm tottly indepedent

自立的人比较好吧，我也本身也是比较独立的一个人。

回复 29# anro

tks for your here !{:soso_e100:}

回复 26# 江南秀

嗯！天助自助者呀！

Yes, I am. what's important for the independence? everyone has its different understanding. for me, being independent have to have three basic conditions. first, s/he has its independent thought, not influenced or controlled by others in matters of opinion, conduct, etc.. second, have a financially independent. finally, have independent living skills to be able to take care of itself.

Hello....Actually ,i'm not really independent,but i will try...like to make friends...My name is Alan

ithink i am ndependent.

I've always been independent since I was in middle school. As for a woman, in my opinion, women will have a better life and higher family status if they are independent both in mind and in economy. However, being too independent or too dependent after marriage isn't a good idea. You should learn to be interdependent.