Talking Points 谈话要点

With your tutor, conversation partners, or classmates, you may wish to discuss the following:和你的导师,对话伙伴,或者是同班同学,你想要讨论如下的哪些问题:

1. What are some reasons people get married? 什么原因会让人想结婚？

(Romantic love, arrangement by parents, financial security, nothing else to do, other reasons)浪漫的爱情,由父母安排,金融安全,无事可做,其他的原因

2. What do you think is/are the best reason(s) for couples to "tie the knot?"你认为是什么最原因让这对夫妇喜结良缘了吗?

3. Would you recommend marrying for reasons other than "love?" Why or why not?你会因为爱而结婚吗，会还是不会，为什么？

4. If a couple is not happy before marriage, do you think they will be happy together after marriage?如果一对夫妇在结婚前不是很快乐,你认为他们婚后还会乐意一起吗?

5. If you were a therapist, what would you suggest for people who aren't happy

with their partners but want to get married anyway?如果你是一个心理学老师,你对那些对自己伴侣不是很满意，但是无论如何都要结婚的情侣，有什么建议呢？