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同班级孩子间差异的真正原因!原是这个……

发布者: david | 发布时间: 2015-7-2 20:27| 查看数: 1029| 评论数: 1|

<section data-id="35362" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="padding: 1px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px solid rgb(211, 42, 99);"><section style="padding: 1px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px solid rgb(211, 42, 99); color: inherit;"><section class="135brush" data-style="line-height:24px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89); font-size:14px" style="padding: 15px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 1px solid rgb(211, 42, 99); color: inherit;">这是一个非常有经验的老师经验之谈和肺腑之言。“孩子之间的竞争,归根结底是家长综合素质和付出心力的竞争。”“所谓智力,就是阅读能力,而读书是一辈子的事情,重要的是日不间断和兴致勃勃”。每一点都非常值得赞同。</section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 27px;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 27px;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: 宋体;">以下这些或许就是一个班级孩子差异的真正原因</span><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: 宋体;">。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 25.6000003814697px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">1</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">同一个班级,孩子之间的竞争,归根到底,是家长综合素质和付出心力的竞争。平时不闻不问,考差了大发雷霆,是不负责任的表现。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">2</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">当人们说这个孩子和哪个孩子的不同的时候,其实主要是指这个家长和那个家长的不同。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">3</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">同在一个班级,教是一样的教。如果你没有按照老师的要求去做,没有尽到做家长的责任,不要向孩子提学习要求,更没有资格责备他们。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">4</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">当你觉得付出没有得到充分回报的时候,要这样想:如果我不做,孩子的潜能将更不能发掘。然后心平气和做该做的事。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">5</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">作为教育者,要想让孩子爱学习,必须自己先做读书人。教师如此,家长也是如此。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">6</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">如果希望孩子好,那就先成为读书型的父母,那就从今晚做起——和孩子一道,安静地看书。如果你不能在书桌前坐半个钟头,又如何要求孩子每天从早到晚坚持五六个小时的艰苦学习呢?</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">7</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">儿童的学习越困难,他在学习中遇到的似乎无法克服的障碍越多,他就越应当阅读。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">8</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">其实,无论是基础知识,阅读还是写作,提高能力的根本途径都是课外阅读。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">9</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">所谓智力,就是阅读能力。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">10</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">一次考试分数的高低是偶然的,可是家长是否负责任,却必然地决定了孩子发展的方向。教师的一视同仁总是相对的。对于教育责任感特别强、能与教师紧密配合的家长,教师对他的孩子自然要特别关注一些——这是很公平。因为没有家庭配合,教师努力全然是做无用功。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">11</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">学生取得优秀成绩所依赖的,除了天分,更多的是自控力、专注性和求知欲,这些素质,对于孩子的成长,太重要。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">12</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">作为教师,我们比谁都知道分数的重要。可是,那比分数更重要的,我们时刻不敢忘记。第一,身心健康;第二,正直勤勉;第三,面对困难,具有独立战胜的勇气和能力;第四,成绩优秀。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">13</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">对于那些多动和富于攻击性的孩子而言,最不幸的是他们自己,天长日久,他们会成为人群中不受欢迎的孤独者。当然,教师会竭尽全力,不让这种情况发生。作为家长,对此更负有不可推卸的责任。“在家很任性。”这实在是家长自己应当深刻检讨的事情。现在的孩子,性格成型早。希望父母高度重视,及时扭转。否则,学校教育的效果只能被抵消。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">14</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">对于教师而言,真正的志同道合者,存在于家长中。当大家都动起来,群策群力了,这个集体才叫厉害呢!”有人说老师带的不是一个班,而是两个,一个是学生班,一个是家长班。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">15</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">三分之一的家长积极行动,步步紧跟;三分之一的家长虎头蛇尾,勉强应付;三分之一家长基本没有能力跟得上。而这,就是及格、良好、优秀拉开档次的主要原因。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">16</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">孩子学习是艰辛的,这是一个爬坡过程,一旦上了路,对于您的家庭、对于教师,都是一件幸事。在这个过程中,教师自然要竭尽全力引导、帮助他们,如果在能得到家长的帮助,那孩子将多么幸福。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; 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box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">18</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">不要着急,不要攀比,不要企望一口吃胖,不要提出超越孩子接受能力的要求。读书是一辈子的事情,重要的是日不间断和兴致勃勃。只要他在读,只要他这周比上周进步就值得高兴,就应当鼓励。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">19</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">一天一小步,一周一大步,一月长一截——一学期就在全然不同的两个档次了。资质相同的孩子,摊上不同的父母,其发展也就不一样。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; 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box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); border: 0px none; font-size: 14px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><section style="margin-left: 27px; padding-top: 5px; padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 35px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; font-size: 16px; border-left-width: 2px; border-left-style: dotted; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(211, 42, 99) rgb(228, 228, 228);"><section class="autonum" data-width="32px" style="margin-top: 23px; margin-left: -53px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; width: 32px; height: 32px; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center; line-height: 32px; border-radius: 16px; border-color: rgb(213, 142, 166); background-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">21</section><section class="135brush" style="margin-top: -30px; padding-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: inherit; border-color: rgb(211, 42, 99);">一次考试的分数不重要,重要的是知识掌握了没有,更重要的是孩子是否喜欢读书。即使从应试的角度考虑,从长远来看,读书也是所有功课植根的土壤,他的贫瘠与丰厚,关系实在重大。</section></section></section><section data-id="2185" class="135editor" style="max-width: 100%; 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游客 发表于 2015-7-3 00:39:52
这是老师写的,家长现在少有对孩子不管不问的。原因肯定是多方面的,先不说学习是不是真的那么重要,这里一点不提老师的责任是不合适的。本来孩子们的差距不大,在老师的区别对待下差距就越来越大了。上课教的内容是一样的,可老师对每个孩子的态度不一样,学习效果当然大不同。
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