Others are merely morrors of you.

别人不过是你的镜子。

You can't love or hate something about another person unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself.

一个人对另一个人的爱憎，完全是因为对方折射了自己身上的某些东西。

When tempted to criticize others, ask yourself why you feel so srongly.

当你想批评别人的时候，先问问自己为什么反应如此强烈。