还记得之前小编问过大家，工作和生活哪个对你更重要。在大家的评论中，小编看到的不仅是讨论，还看到了有些人为生计做出的无奈选择，并因此产生的迷茫。

这其中比较普遍的，就是许多人为了工作背井离乡。然而，离开亲人并不是最令人担心的，离开爱人才是最揪心的。因为，爱情最怕的考验便是距离和时间。



最初分开时，大家心里想的可能是对方在干嘛，吃饭睡觉了没，所以发个短信，打个电话。

然而时间一久，工作一忙，你或许会顾不上这些了。当你回过神时，却想起已经许久没有联络过了。

You're standing there but I can't touch youTry to talk but the words are just not thereI can feel a sense of dangerYou stare at me like I'm a stranger

或许这份心情，会如Westlife的前成员—— Brian McFadden 所唱的《Demons》一样，令人慌张、迷茫。

Brian McFadden – Demons（YouTube: BryanMcFaddenVEVO）

Have you ever been lost in a different world

Where everything you once knew

Is gone

And you find yourself powerless

With everything that exists

You're numb

Will I ever break free

I searched my world but I can't find you

You're standing there but I can't touch you

Try to talk but the words are just not there

I can feel a sense of danger

You stare at me like I'm a stranger

Paralyzed and you don't seem to care

The demons in my dreams

If you become a nobody

Blind, to your family

Who would you be?

And life has gone into reverse

Re-living every hurt

Along the way

Everything that you fear is calling you and drawing near

I searched my world but I can't find you

You're standing there but I can't touch you

Try to talk but the words are just not there

I can feel a sense of danger

You stare at me like I'm a stranger

Paralyzed and you don't seem to care

The demons in my dreams

Wake me up and let's go, yeah

I'm about to explode

Yeah

I searched my world but I can't find you

You're standing there but I can't touch you

Try to talk but the words are just not there

I can feel a sense of danger

You stare at me like I'm a stranger

Paralyzed and you don't seem to care

The demons in my dreams

这首歌，曾是经典美剧《Lost》的主题曲。正如剧名一样，“lost”也是这首歌的灵魂。

其实，对于歌词你可以做两种理解，一种是“自我迷失”，另一种是“爱情迷失”。不过，并非只有相隔两地才会导致感情问题。如果平时太过专注和忙碌于工作，也会让我们不经意间忽略和冷落爱人的感受。



小编从来不喜欢消极主义，如果你发现自己迷失了，千万不要一边听歌一边自怜自艾。因为这首《Demons》的歌声不是让你消沉的，而是要唤起人们心里爱的呐喊，不再迷失自我，迷失真爱。任何美好的生活都是我们用实际行动挣来的不是吗？